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<url><loc>https://dear-diaries.blog/2026/08/14/trying-to-look-at-people-as-individuals-rather-than-groups-or-clusters-some-have-ideologies-i-need-to-avoid-socialist-communist-etc-i-need-to-be-careful-of-people-who-put-pretending-to-be-anothe/</loc><news:news><news:publication><news:name>Dear diary + Help</news:name><news:language>en</news:language></news:publication><news:publication_date>2026-08-14T06:33:34+00:00</news:publication_date><news:title>Trying to look at people as individuals rather than groups or clusters. Some have ideologies I need to avoid (socialist, communist, etc). I need to be careful of people who put pretending to be another person above being themselves. I like genuine people. People who are themselves. People who are not acting 24/7. They appear to be rare to me. It doesn&#8217;t mean I don&#8217;t like people who are not themselves. It just means I don&#8217;t trust them. Why would I after all of the poking and prodding?</news:title></news:news></url><url><loc>https://dear-diaries.blog/2026/08/14/after-my-divorce-when-i-was-looking-for-a-job-a-friend-of-mine-suggested-i-apply-at-the-container-store-contain-her-didnt-she-realize-i-already-worked-there-both-at-home-and-at-work-all-of-my-li/</loc><news:news><news:publication><news:name>Dear diary + Help</news:name><news:language>en</news:language></news:publication><news:publication_date>2026-08-14T06:18:57+00:00</news:publication_date><news:title>After my divorce when I was looking for a job a friend of mine suggested I apply at the Container Store (contain her). Didn&#8217;t she realize I already worked there both at home and at work? All of my life.</news:title></news:news></url></urlset>
