J at Aspen Hill…”They are not your family. We are your family.” I felt that. My questions do not come from nowhere. Unfortunately I don’t think they will be answered sufficiently in this lifetime. At one time I thought there was something I could do to get the answers. Now unfortunately I think I am going to have to live with the uncertainty. If you have roots please be grateful. I am more like a candle in the wind. Never knowing. And there in lies the discomfort for you..knowing you could do something but realizing you won’t because too many social structures rely on secrecy and mystery.